IGNORED NEGATIVITY

Written by: doug8787 | May 29, 2009 4:19 AM in Marketing & Advertising | 402 views | Tags: Network Marketing

What this article IS meant to do,  is wake up people............

 to the fact that often times what we are doing is only
hindering ourselves, and sometimes we subconsciously
actually hinder other people.

And what I am talking about is 'Ignored Negativity'.

Meaning... negativity that you haven't actually INVESTIGATED in
yourself first, dealt with yourself first, and found the true
source yourself FIRST. Let me explain...

I see a lot of people getting lots of income and education from our system along with a our family type, group- community.

There are TREMENDOUS leaders here, who out of their own
good will are helping others everyday. I could name a bunch
but I won't to keep things simple.

However, when I hear people that use very negative words.
Words that just reek of negativity, blame, frustration, impatience,
lack of consciousness, responsibility, and accountability...

It makes me wonder whether if we are running a baby sitters club
or are we actually coaching people on how to be LEADERS in
this industry.  Turn them into the type of people that can create
a SUCCESSFUL business from scratch.

Because I will tell you this... if you are stuck in a mind set where
the world owes you something, where you are feeling sorry
for yourself, where you just want to vent anger or frustration,
or whatever else...

Then you are NOT on the path to success.

You are on the path to more misery... to put it quite simple.

Because you're missing the PRIMARY point. You're missing
the REAL message from the Universe, which is, there are
many things you haven't figured out inside which are causing
all these secondary feelings outside.

You are probably filled with fear, desperation, anger, pain,
or whatever else that is causing such emotion.

Our PRIMARY PURPOSE .................

It's to figure out THESE problems first... because those are
the CORE problems. Those are the core instabilities that
result in the instability we see in the rest of our lives.

Yet it constantly seems that everyone has it backwards.

Complaining about something which is 100 x less complicated,
important, or difficult to understand is the NORM...
while the unchecked emotions that cause lack of leadership,
success, and stability just continue to run rampant.

Well, guess what.

Because my mind set, my being, and how I LIVE does not
tolerate such things. I don't tolerate them within myself,
and I'm dam well not going to tolerate them on a larger
scale.

If I start to see negative attitudes, born from fear, desperation,
or what I'm calling 'Ignored Negativity'... I will ignore them
or send a message to "Rethink" how to say what you're
trying to express... and come back when you're ready to approach
it as a true professional.

Lets get a few things clear here...

You are totally free to ask any question you want, ask
for any help you want, ask any thought on your mind...

That is 100% what mentoring is for. Don't think
for a minute you can't do that. But what I'm challenging
everyone to do here is be really CONSCIOUS before
they do that.

To NOT let any negativity you might have, spill out on
to other people who are here to Learn, Grow, and DEVELOP
into better human beings and entrepreneurs.

This is an environment that needs to be NOURISHED, not
infected.

And on top of it... everyone who is here helping ANYONE
else is doing so out of the goodness of their hearts. They
are doing it because they want to be LEADERS. Because
they are stepping up and building a name for themselves,
and stepping into a leadership role.

No one owes anyone anything...

So if we are not coming from a place of APPRECIATION,
respect, and gratitude out of every question, when you                                                     ask for help and answers.

You are showing that on a higher level "You Don't Get It".

If your not coming from a place of gratitude, and appreciation,
you are showing that you are too wrapped up in our own worlds
to see the higher truth of what's going on here.

Now, I can hear what a few of you are thinking, or might be
subconsciously thinking...

"Isn't that how the world is?"

Isn't that just normal? Isn't that how everyone acts? How
could I be expected to be conscious, and in appreciation
for each one of my acts?

And I won't lie... it's a tough thing to do. :)

It's very difficult to hold yourself to some HIGH standards, and
really make sure you are conscious as much as you can be.

But I'm not here to take the "easy" way out.

And I could frankly care less about it. I'm here to challenge
myself, and SO are you.

The point of our mentoring and training is to EMPOWER people.

If we aren't willing to hold ourselves to high standards of
truth and empowerment, and hold ourselves accountable for
our thoughts, our attitudes, our emotions, and our actions...

Then you shouldn't be in this business community.

Because I am here to nourish. I am here to help grow.

And I will settle for nothing less.

If you opt to continue being a part of our community, that
is AWESOME! You're in for a treat, and you are truly learning
from and surrounded by some incredible people.

If you opt to not participate in the community in a positive
way, that is completely ok too. You can come back to us
when you've done some deeper searching within yourself
and are ready to act very 'Mature' and take accountability
for all things.

But from here on out... just remember this article.

Remember this is a Six Figure Income Entrepreneurs Community.

If you are struggling, frustrated, or having a problem...

THINK and reflect before you ask something. Figure out
how to express yourself like an 'Powerfull Entrepreneur'.

ALWAYS 'Check' your negativity. There are often times nothing
worse in our world than when we don't check our negativity
and let it spew on others.

I can promise you, if we all hold ourselves to these standards...

The amount of value and income that IS coming out of our community, and
WILL come out of this community, will increase TEN TIMES.

This business will immediately become a happier, more positive,
more powerful business... for everyone involved.

And like I said... that's what it is going to be. :) With or with out
you. So with that my friends... enjoy your night.

Remember, this is directed at absolutely no one in particular.

If you feel something from this, or that this might have been
directed at you, use that as an opportunity to explore yourself,
your actions, and how you've been coming across to people.

Every moment is a gift and a teacher.

There's no such thing as right or wrong.

There is only learning... growing... and making more enlightened
decisions for the future."