More and more brides are asking themselves this question. I am finding that brides that end up coming to me do so after they have purchased a lot of things that they will not use for the wedding. These things will take time to return or end up sitting around collecting dust. Most importantly, it is wasted money. That is why I tell all my brides to bask in the moment first. Tell everyone you know. Take some time to really think about what this day is going to mean for both of you before you start any planning. If you discuss your ideas before you involve too many people you will more than likely have the wedding that YOU want.